Some questions to answer...

What is personal growth?
Is it possible without crisis?
What is crisis? It is a point where an entity suddenly adjusts to a change in the available energy levels coming from its environment?

Entropy and love

not that much really.

http://www.entropy.in/

http://www.lifepositive.com/Mind/consciousness/entropy.asp

Rules

There are no rules in this quest. This is an exploratory work and does not mean to judge in any way. There maybe observation of things that we consider to be 'right' or 'wrong' or 'good'/'bad' but these will be as objective as possible (though it will also be argued that there is no true 'objective'.

This is dull, back to work now...

Thermodynamic arrow of time

consider the 3 states of experience: flow, fear, and love (is that what i called them before?)

consider our individual entropy level (aka ego etc), and how this is affected by these 3 states (in flow it remains constant?)

consider our experience of the passing of time, and how this is affected by these 3 states (in flow there is no experience of passing time?). If this pattern holds, then in love we experience a reversal of time?! ie we experience that from which we 'came from' (using our usual 'fear' based timeline as reference), ie unity. This concurs with scientific theory of a big bang singularity.

the thermodynamic arrow of time is the direction in which entropy rises. Because memory causes a rise in entropy (or falls? - i always get confused in directions here), this means that because we experience time because of memory, it is necessarily aligned to the thermodynamic arrow of time.